Walking on Mesquite Street toward
Klein Park I meet City Councilor Greg Smith. He's wearing a black
suit and a black bow tie – and flip-flops. No socks. I compliment
him on the discordance. He says later that Miguel always wanted him
to go to a city council meeting in flip-flops. Greg doubted they
communicated the right gravitas for the occasion; but today he'd wear
them.
People mostly know each other. I see
Irene Oliver-Lewis, whom I've known for nearly a half-century – and
I'm an outsider. Many of these people grew up here. “This was our
park,” someone says. “We were kids. It didn't even have grass
then. We were into xeriscaping before there was xeriscaping.”
Another family-member points out that Mayor Klein's daughter-in-law
is present, and that Klein too was a devoted public servant.
Jeff Sutton, Miguel's brother-in-law
and a pastor, speaks for awhile. He mentions the Biblical importance
of trees, like the one we are dedicating to Miguel. He notes that
Miguel's parents named him Miguel Gabriel, for two angels. And as a
minister of God he asks God to send those two angels down to this
tree, so that whenever someone, perhaps a youngster with issues, sits
in the shade of this tree contemplating a problem or decision, Angel
Miguel will assist. His words – upbeat, in a way – are exactly
right.
I shoot photographs while I listen.
Portraits of the faces, some with funny hats. Many folks present
have intricate relationships with each other, as deep and natural as
the lines on their faces.
Mayor Ken Miyagashima arrives. He
tells a funny story about Miguel and a pal painting “Publisher's
Clearinghouse” on Miguel's white van and stopping at people's
homes.
The Mayor speaks, and I think he means
what he says. But of course I think of the irony: months ago, the
two battled for the position of mayor. Two men with deep roots in
this community. Two men undoubtedly ambitious but also determined to
improve our community.
I can't help recalling the PAC
(Treasurer: Congressman Pearce's brother) that viciously attacked
Ken. An ugliness
brought by greedy outsiders with more dollars than decency. It hurt Ken. And while I won't allege that the ugliness killed Miguel, it pained him – as did the feeling that fellow citizens might think he caused it. Unfairly, I believe.
brought by greedy outsiders with more dollars than decency. It hurt Ken. And while I won't allege that the ugliness killed Miguel, it pained him – as did the feeling that fellow citizens might think he caused it. Unfairly, I believe.
Miguel, in a friend's words, “worked
very hard to run a campaign that would go by without him saying
anything negative or disparaging Ken, or doing anything that would
interfere with their friendship. Even when I tried to talk him into
criticizing Ken.” The PAC attacks happened despite Miguel – and
may have contributed to the size of Ken's victory margin.
Leaving, I pause to say hello to Ken,
who's talking with a lady I don't know. She tells me she's the one
who posted a comment on my blog post concerning her own suicidal thoughts
the weekend Miguel died. Today she's approached the mayor offering
insight into the city's mental health services. A client's view.
“Miguel gave me the courage to do that,” she says. Ken mentions
having her speak with a mental health advisory committee. He gives
her his cell-phone number. They're still talking as I leave.
Maybe the Angels are already on the
job.
-30-Wearing a hat for Miguel, with a tag -- and the Organ Mountains! |
Miguel -Farmers' Mkt. 2013 |
In these five images, the bow-tie gets unveiled.
Thanks for sharing.
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ReplyDeleteVery nice, indeed. Blessings on Miguel and blessings on you, Peter.
ReplyDeletePeter, thank you for keeping this conversation going. It is vitally important that our community is informed and takes an interest in the lack of mental health resources in Las Cruces. At this point, city leaders are haggling over dollars and cents. How they should be spent. Should we build a new hospital, should we improve existing facilities? How can we recruit more doctors and health care workers? What can we do to help people with no insurance gain access? What about profit? These are important questions.
ReplyDeleteHowever, we also need to have conversations regarding whether or not those services are effective and appropriate. What other resources are available in our community that do not involve prescription medication, "protective custody" or involuntary hospitalization. We are a community of vibrant, talented people. There are many people in Las Cruces who approach mental health care from a completely different angle. People who have figured out a way to find balance in their own lives and minds. People who have taken their power back. No longer dependent on doctor's and prescriptions and facilities. People who are committed to empowering others to do the same. These are the people I would like to see involved in discussions with city leaders. Maybe the city leaders should wear flip-flops more often, become more approachable more relatable more willing to accept thier own personal struggles with stress, sleeplessness, depression, anxiety and addiction. Maybe if people began to see that mental health care is an issue that effects us all to varying degrees we would begin to have more compassion for each other and for ourselves. Thank you Peter. Thank you Miguel. You inspire me to speak up even though it's scary and embarrassing. Bravery is not the absence of fear but action in the face of fear. -the lady in the park
Thanks. If you have specific suggestions on columns or posts on this subject, now or later, feel free to contact me.
ReplyDeleteSo saddened to read the front page this morning. Mr. Silva has been an inspiration to the people of Las Cruces. A memorial in his honor, a place where friends and loved ones and maybe troubled people could gather to pray and reflect is a truly lovely idea. I believe in the power of prayer especially, wherever two or more people are praying for the same thing. Let's believe and have faith that Miguel's memorial will be found and returned to it's rightful place. Also, that the terrible act of it's theft will bring more attention to the plight of people in Cruces who are struggling find treatment and support for thier own battles with anxiety, depression and addiction. That this thoughtless act will be transformed into good purpose. Keeping the Faith.
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